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‘I should have gotten the damn vaccine’: Father’s COVID regret from hospital

Freedy returned home with a “brutal” sunburn, purplish red in colour with water blisters, and a number of symptoms: lack of appetite, restlessness, feverishness, dizziness and nausea. He stayed home from work the next two days But DuPreez said there was little concern because they chalked up these symptoms to his sunburn, as they thought he had come down with a case of sun stroke.


DuPreez said Freedy went to the ER three days following their return from San Diego as his symptoms persisted. She said not much was made of Freedy’s condition at the time; the doctor who saw him just told him to drink some Gatorade. Freedy went to work that night.

However, Freedy continued feeling unwell and called in sick the next two days, DuPreez. He visited a different ER at the beginning of the following week, where a different conclusion was reached about his condition — Freedy tested positive for COVID-19.

“He’s panicking, saying how he doesn’t want to die and he doesn’t want to leave his babies without a dad,” DuPreez said.

DuPreez said Freedy’s young age — he had turned 39 a couple days before his diagnosis — and relatively good health offered her some reassurance at the time, which she tried to channel into encouragement. “I promise we’ll get through this,” she told him.

“I should have gotten the damn vaccine,” Micheal Freedy, 39, of Las Vegas, texted his fiance from hospital.

“I should have gotten the damn vaccine,” Micheal Freedy, 39, of Las Vegas, texted his fiance from hospital.

Freedy went back home, advised by doctors to stay hydrated, rest and self-isolate.

But his condition rapidly worsened. He woke up DuPreez around 3am the following morning, according to her account of Freedy’s illness on GoFundMe, telling her he couldn’t breathe or stand up straight.

DuPreez took Freedy to the ER for his third visit in 96 hours. His blood oxygen level was low, and hospital staff were “surprised he was even able to walk and talk”. Scans found pneumonia in both of his lungs, DuPreez said.

It was a rapid decline DuPreez never saw coming.

“[I didn’t] realise when I was dropping him off at the ER because he couldn’t breathe that that was going to be the last time I held his hand while he was awake,” she said. “That I wasn’t going to be able to hug him again, that I wasn’t going to be able to sleep next to him ever again.”

Freedy’s fiance has spoken of her partner’s heartbreaking regret after he died from COVID-19.

Freedy’s fiance has spoken of her partner’s heartbreaking regret after he died from COVID-19.

Although DuPreez wasn’t able to see Freedy after this point, other than bringing him clothes and other items to the hospital, she said she still felt hopeful, even as an anxiety began to settle in.

DuPreez said Freedy was transferred to another hospital and then into an intermediate care unit. During one of their text conversations, Freedy expressed regret.

“I should have gotten the damn vaccine,” Freedy wrote, according to a report from FOX5.

After five days in the intermediate care unit and a week after his COVID-19 diagnosis, Freedy was taken to the ICU, DuPreez said. He was fully intubated and sedated within about two hours of his arrival, she added.


DuPreez said she was told by a nurse that night “to contact next of kin and to take all of his belongings home.”

DuPreez got up early the day her fiance died. She said she was planning on going to work that day and had to drop her kids off at her sister’s place across town. But she wanted to visit Freedy first.

“I want to make sure he knows that I’m here,” DuPreez said.

When she arrived at the hospital, she thought there was good news. Freedy was in a new bed and some of his numbers had improved.

But soon his blood oxygen numbers plummeted. DuPreez said a nurse reassured her that this was normal.

Then Freedy’s numbers “bottomed out” and he no longer had a detectable pulse.

A “swarm of doctors and nurses” rushed in. DuPreez was promptly moved to the back of the room as the doctors performed chest compressions on him.

After 30 minutes of compressions, DuPreez said, one of the doctors came over to her and told her they had to stop. “We’ve done everything that we can.”

Brant Graves, one of Freedy’s best friends, normally works late and sleeps during the day. That day, he woke up “to a million text messages and missed phone calls,” all sharing a tone of sorrow — “Oh, that’s so sad” and “Oh, I’m so sorry.”


Graves said at first he couldn’t believe the news of Freedy’s passing.

“It was just very hard to realise that one of my best friends is just gone, and I’m never going to see him again,” Graves said.

Graves is “fully versed” in dealing with the harrowing realities of the coronavirus. He is a registered sleep technologist and spent three months “working side by side with nurses every single day on the frontline dealing with COVID patients and seeing them die left and right and seeing all the tragedy”.

He said he didn’t know Freedy was unvaccinated and that the only time they spoke of COVID-19 was in the in the context of working with pandemic restrictions, such as wearing face masks.

“It’s just a shame that he didn’t get it [the vaccine],” Graves said.

DuPreez said she and her oldest child were vaccinated the same day Freedy tested positive for COVID-19.

Looking back on her own experience, DuPreez said vaccine-hesitant people should push through their scepticism and get vaccinated.

“Even if you get a sore shoulder or you get a little sick, I would take a little sick over him not being here at this point,” DuPreez said.

“I would just implore everybody to get it [the vaccine] if they can,” Graves said. “If they’ve been thinking about getting it — get it.”

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